I need some advice on handling what could prove to be a tense situation. A little background first. The only daughter of a couple we are friends with (they have know my husband since he was a teenager in their church) is getting married this weekend. I was offered the chance to photograph the wedding but turned it down because I have only done three weddings and this one will be on the beach at sunset. I just didn’t feel confident I could provide good results with the ever-changing light that time of day. They found a local photographer to do the wedding (4 hours of coverage) and I agreed to take the more casual photos at the reception. All seemed well.
But how things can change. They, mother and bride, have not had good dealing with this photographer so far. The bridal photo shoot went well but she was several weeks late in getting the final portrait to them. The quality of which they were not happy with. Don’t get me wrong the photo was good but the quality of the print seemed lacking for what they paid for it. My personal opinion when looking at it was that it could be due to the fact that it was printed on mat board. My suggestion was that they let the photographer know the love the picture but that maybe it would look better on a standard photographic paper instead of mat board. This was not well received by the photographer and now they are truly concerned if she will even show up.
I have agreed to go early to take photos of the bride and bride’s maids getting ready. They would also like me to take some photos while the photographer does the formals. This is where I feel it could get tense. I would be doing what the bride and her mother asked me to but I feel this could bother the wedding photographer and I don’t want to be the cause of any more problems.
Sorry about this being so long. Any advice or suggestion would be greatly appreciated.
Stina