thnaks all for the words of wisdom I will pass them on and thanks for looking. I'm still recovering... and trying to make sense of all of it. my friend and I have known each other for 10 yearsand I sit and think about what a span of experiences we can all live through in just a short while. we met as art students in college and now we're mothers of 2+ kids and she has to start all over again...agh...it's all crazy. thanks for looking and listening
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