A key light is usually brighter than a fill light so that if you set your key light to f 5.6 you could set your fill light to f 4 making the key light twice as bright as the fill light.
What confuses me is this: I thought the smaller the fstop number the brighter it is, so F 4 would be brighter than F 5.6, so when it comes to light metering strobes, why does setting your key light to f5.6 make it brighter than a fill light set at F 4
I do apologize for my ignorance but l am as keen as l am stupid.