Frog was right about the questions rolling around my mind. That said, a few *general* opinions...

Camera, pretty much any camera over 6mp with full manual capability will do, but there's a much greater availability of high quality used gear/lenses/accessories for Nikon & Canon, pick your poison.
Lenses are more critical and higher quality is worth the investment. "Fast glass" isn't *as* important in the studio as you're usually shooting in the f/5.6 - f/11 range and it's hard to suggest focal lengths without knowing your shooting style (I use my 28-70 rarely, and my 200mm prime A LOT, but your style may be completely different)

Lighting, again a matter of budget and personal preference, some guys love speedlights, others won't shoot with anything cheaper than ProFoto/BronColor - get the best you can afford even if you buy it used off Craigslist.

Tripod - for model shots, haven't touched mine in 8 months.
Stands - stay away from the cheap ones, good stands new run @ $50ea but it's money well spent, if you must spend less, buy good ones used rather than cheap ones new.
Remotes - Pocket Wizards - they are the industry standard for a reason - buy them new. You don't need multimax's the II's will do just fine, and if you're on a tight budget you can use a mono cord splitter and run 2 lights off one wizard. I've shot at studios that swear by Radio Poppers, but those same studios had problems with them on every occasion I was there. In my opinion, the cost savings isn't worth the hours of aggravation.

Light meter - Don't have much experience with any brand but Sekonic, I use my 258 every single time I'm shooting studio lights, indoors and out. Everyone else I've shot with uses Sekonic as well, so some others may also be good but the 258 or 758 is a sure bet (especially with the optional pocket wizard wireless trigger).

Your link doesn't go where you intended it to, but as a rule of thumb, if you are looking at 2 head kits (monolight or pack type) to buy brand new and you are planning moderate to heavy use, anything under $2,000 probably isn't worth buying. It won't be long before you're wishing you had saved up a little more cash and got better lights from the start.