Julia, what you're referring to is called selective focus, and it's a classic technique to bring the viewer's attention to a subject's eyes.Originally Posted by jhousman6
The old school method of creating this effect is tried and true, and still used. A portrait or headshot lens (IOW short tele) shot wide open (largest aperture) will have the narrowest DoF.
For many years, one of the most coveted lenses for this technique was Canon's 85mm f/1.2. It is a super fast lens, and wide open probably has a DoF of about 1/4 inch, maybe less. Mucho expensive, though...
More normal lenses such as f/1.8 or f/1.4 will also give pretty good results, but the trick is to be extremely accurate with your focusing. You want the plane of focus to be the eyes, so anything closer or farther back will be slightly or greatly out of focus (depending on the distance).
Now, modern digital editing of image files in programs like photoshop allow you to mimic this effect very convincingly by using selective blur and masking, but it is definitely an acquired skill.
There is even a ps filter called lens blur, that creates a variable blur much like a camera lens would. It has quite a few adjustable controls to really allow you to customize the look. But again, it takes time to learn.
Hope that helps you...