I know, the dreaded "which camera" question, but I don't have much time to research and would like some quick feedback. So this is more of a "drive-by" question.

Which compact digital camera out on the market today comes the CLOSEST to being like a digital SLR in terms of (in this order):

Speed (shutter lag & AF)
Noise (standard being Canon Rebel or 20D/30D)
Overall image quality
Control (manual controls)
Format (3:2 image ration)

Thanks in advance