I got my new Canon T1i and have been just playing around with it. Its my very first DSLR, I used to have a Canon PowerShot a640. I use my cameras mostly to take pics of my son and pets, and when I travel I get some scenery shots and outdoor stuff. Im not looking for a career in photography, so I dont need anything REALLY fancy or anything like that. But my problem with all canons I have ever used is the flash is really bright and washes everything out. I love canons but this is an issue I always have with them. Any tips to help with the burn out? Are there any external flashes you have used or heard of that have a more natural appearance to them but still offer a little light?